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trans men absolutely do face transphobia. this is not something i have ever argued against. while i no longer identify w the transmasc label i WAS transmasc for several years and faced significant transphobia. to say im denying this by saying i dont believe in transAndrophobia, which is an entirely different term w different context and meaning, is saying i am denying my own experiences. and saying i have No right to speak in this conversation is genuinely just an excuse to ignore what im saying

transandrophobia as a concept is based in no real understanding of the systems in place and intersectionality. transmisogyny as a term exists to describe oppressive power structures that ONLY affect transfems, such as bills barring specifically Only trans women from playing sports. the combination of two axis of oppression creates a unique experience that, while still of course influenced by both parts, experiences things that someone who is only One of those things does not. there is no structural equivalent that only affects transmascs that does not either affect anyone coercively assigned female, or anyone who is trans in general. this is Why transandrophobia and related terms don't work- theyre trying to describe an exclusivity that isnt there, because thats not how intersectionality works

something about acht just resonates with me. they tend to fluctuate as a comforter if that makes sense; sometimes the comforting feeling is stronger lol

"its over freak, youre dead!!!!!!!!"
"arent you forgetting something........."
"HUH?!?!??!/"
"and geeks...... ASSEMBLE"
"oh no............"
"youre dead now bully!!!!!!!!!"
"prepare to give me ur lunch money!!"
"no.... NO...."
"sniff"
"who the hell are you"
"a guy"
"alright freaks and geeks, its time to freak this geek TOGETHER"
absolute cinema

okay, this is a bigger entry than my normal ones, but a lot happened today. good things, so don't worry!!

so! today there was a party. a big party. this had been hyped up for a few weeks now... i don't really remember why or what the party was about; parsec kept on mentioning some "anniversary". i don't know. surprisingly, it was pretty nice... i kinda dread office parties 'n stuff, but this one was really fancy! it wasn't even hosted at the office, but at this weird venue thingy. there was music, pretty lights, activities 'n stuff, PARTY FOOD!!!

everybody was there, and i mean everybody. terminal managed to make it, which made spencer really happy (convinced they're a thing...)! bert, rotten, pedro - they were all there too! felt so weird seeing everybody here...

these circles go out for the ones who have been hurt in the past. i wish you guys good luck and good healing.
remember, healing isnt a linear process. you have your good days, then you have your bad days. sometimes, the bad days tend to be, well, bad!! and it sucks a lot. but just know... that everythin' will be okay. even if i'm not much help, i hope this does, in some way, find you well.
i've been through things like that a lot... many, many times throughout the 37 years i've been on this planet. i know how it feels, i really do.
even if, like, for example, the only thing you do on one day is just eat and sleep. even if you just don't do much, point is, you survived another day!! and that's somethin' you should be proud of.
and i know it can be hard, i know it can feel impossible, but i just KNOW you're gonna survive the next day, and the next, and the next!! you, yes, you, you're gonna shine like a lil star in the sky. they glow, by the way, dee and i counted around, uh, 87 of them the other night!!