Lexci Sterling (Lust) YYJ/YVR 🇨🇦

@lexcisterling.bsky.social

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Victoria/Vancouver • Writer, Sex-worker, Mentor Soft energy, sharp boundaries. https://www.substack.com/@lexcisterling https://linktr.ee/lexcisterling NSFW

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MENTORSHIP WITH LEXCI LUST Helping providers build safer, stronger, more sustainable businesses. With over a decade of industry experience, I offer personalized guidance tailored to your goals, strengths, and challenges. Whether you're refining an established brand or finding your footing, my approach is practical, honest, and individualized. AREAS OF SUPPORT • Branding & Positioning • Website & Ad Audits • Marketing Strategy • Client Screening & Safety • Booking Systems • Boundaries & Policies • Long-Term Sustainability Now Accepting 3 New Mentees Victoria • Vancouver • Online lexcilust.com lexcilust@gmail.com
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"There’s a loneliness in sex work that I don’t think people talk about enough. Not the dramatic kind people imagine. Not “sad lonely woman” stereotypes. I mean the quieter kind. The kind that creeps in after years of giving. Giving attention. Giving warmth. Giving softness. Giving reassurance. Giving people a place to land for an hour or two when the world feels cold to them. I’ve become very good at caring for people. And sometimes I wonder what it feels like to receive the same kind of care back without having to earn it first. I know emotional labour is part of the job. I know nobody books me to emotionally take care of *me.* That’s not the arrangement. But after years of being “on,” years of making people feel wanted, desired, relaxed, seen, funny, sexy, safe, important… it starts to wear on you a little when you realize how rarely that energy circles back. And comparison absolutely poisons me sometimes."
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