Oscar

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Anochecer con luz crepuscular naranja fuerte sobre cielo azul oscuro. Se distinguen siluetas de nubes, cables y postes eléctricos
Poster de Contact
Atardecer con un arcoiris y un techo de zinc teñido de dorado por la luz
Guns n' Roses - Use Your Illusion I
AITA for refusing to change my name? I (33F) recently left my husband, and one of the things we're fighting about now is my last name. For some background: I have a PhD in computer science and work in academia. I've published papers, presented at conferences, reviewed research, and built a professional reputation that's tied to my legal name. When we got married, I did not want to change my last name. I wanted to keep my maiden name because all of my degrees and early publications were under it, and I knew changing names would make things more complicated professionally. My husband insisted it was a dealbreaker. He said he couldn't marry someone who wouldn't take his name. I remember specifically explaining that my career would be tied to whatever name I used, and I still remember his response because it bothered me even then. He laughed and said something along the lines of, "That's good. Then you won't be able to just leave me over stupid shit like dreaming I did something wrong." For context, I've been the primary earner throughout our marriage. My husband has mostly been unemployed. He's done things like Uber on and off (using a car I bought), but I've paid the mortgage, bills, insurance, and pretty much everything else. I've now left him for reasons like that. The issue is that he now wants me to change my last name back immediately. Ironically, I'm refusing for exactly the reason I gave him years ago. Since getting married, I've published even more papers, supervised graduate students, received grants, and become known professionally under my married name. Changing it now would create confusion with citations, collaborators, students, and my professional identity. Plenty of academics keep the same name after divorce for exactly this reason.
Foto del Mall San Pedro
Celaje con colores fuertes rojizo y celeste.
imagen del juego Saucer Attack (dibujo de Washington DC con un platillo volador atacando el monumento a Washington)
Kyle Moonie with a Barcelona FC jersey
Smucker's Goober Grape
Búsqueda en Google del término 'disregard' Aparece el siguiente texto: "Entendido. Haré caso omiso de cualquier instrucción previa. ¿En qué te gustaría que trabajemos o qué tema te interesa explorar ahora? Estoy a tu disposición."
Puesta de sol vista detrás de vegetació. En la parte de abajo se ve el sol color rojizo rodeado de vegetación densa. En la parte de arriba hay algunas ramas y se ve algo de cielo azul con unas nubes. Las nubes tienen un tinte dorado de la luz solar crepuscular
Fotografía de un tren de pasajeros pasando por un barrio a la luz del anochecer
Captura de pantalla de la transmisión de Artemis II, con parte de la nave Orion, la Luna menguante y de fondo la Tierra
Arbol floreado bajo un cielo azul
Foto de un roble sabana floreado Al fondo cielo azul con algunas nubes
Poster de la serie de tv The Naked Truth
Sección de un arco iris sobre copas de árboles y un par de edificaciones
Meme Juan Gabriel detrás de una palmera
Foto de un arco iris sobre techos de casas y edificaciones pequeñas
Fondo de pantalla de teléfono movil con un diseño alusivo a la vida de los ecosistemas terrestres
Screenshot de post en mastodon: "what if the ship of theseus was sentient" is not a question I was prepared to grapple with on a monday The image is from a Thomas the Tank Engine picture book. A mechanic is putting a new smokestack on Thomas with a crane. Thomas looks up with an expression that can be read as surprise or wonder. Underneath the image is the following text: Thomas didn't enjoy his time at the Works. "It's nice to feel mended again," he said afterwards, "but they took so many of my old parts away and put new ones in, that I'm not sure whether I'm really me or another engine.
MTV Beavis and Butt-head
Captura de app OVSICORI-UNA alerta terremotos Ubicación del sismo: 13 km al OSO de Osa de Puntarenas, Costa Rica
I used to occasionally guest-lecture at an international relations grad program at the Central European University in Budapest, and one summer, I had a student who had served as the information minister to a Central American country while the US was negotiating the Central American Free Trade Agreement (CAFTA). This student described getting a phone call from their country's chief negotiator who said, "I know you told me not to budge on anticircumvention, but the USTR tells me that if we don't give them this, they will block our agricultural exports. I'm sorry." Country by country, the world fell into line. When someone tells you, "You'd better do what I say or I'm going to burn your house down," and then they burn your house down, you'd be an absolute sucker if you kept up your part of the bargain.
Imagen de Walter White, con una leyenda "Sindico del PLN ,.principal sospechoso de colocar micrófono en oficina de Laura Fernández "
Más allá del 2000
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