SoftlySteph

@softlysteph.bsky.social

950 Followers 864 Following

VR Dancer / Audio Reactive Rave Deer (VJ) / Monstergirl -- (she/her)

Event Poster - A collage of neon blue, pink, and teal, with moon phase imagery. Text: Strawberry Moon, May 340th, DEER.9508, 10:00PM EST DJ, VJ, Lcia, depereo. Silent, Steph. Catdog, Lesse.
Event poster - DEER.9508, April 1st, 9pm EST. abstract moonbeams radiate out of a central pink moon on a blue background surrounded by pink flowers. Text as followers: Pink Moon: Fel, Solace, Depereo, Ladybug, SoftlySteph, DigitalRoze, Live reactive dancer cage, all skill levels welcomed, Live Tarot readings.
Full worm moon event poster Group: Deer.9508 March 3rd 9pm Eastern
the Full Moon on August 9th, which shines a light on the areas in our lives that have been ignored, imbalanced and broken so that we can resolve these issues and move into the next chapter of our lives with clarity and purpose. This is a time of both the individual and the collective, and how that tension can be complementary or contradictory if we’re out of tune with ourselves. Aquarius and Leo sit opposite one another to show us a fundamental tension: Leo governs the personal flame, identity, visibility, the part of us that wants to be seen and celebrated, while Aquarius asks what we do with that light in service of something larger, how our self-expression either isolates or weaves into community, and whether our individuality is a gift to the collective or a performance seeking validation. We’re also confronting a collective identity crisis. With so many false allegiances built around ideology, algorithm, and trauma bonding, it can feel nearly impossible to know who we truly are when removed from the groups we’ve unconsciously clung to. Aquarius asks us to pull back from the projections and collective noise, not to isolate, but to recalibrate. What is truly ours, and what is just residue from the tribal illusions we’ve absorbed through overexposure, overstimulation, and emotional exhaustion? If Leo is “I am,” then Aquarius is “We are,” and this Full Moon cracks that question wide open. 5:45 pm PT, August 8th 2025 Lineup: 1) Silent 2) Xia + FelixYung + Steph 3) Fel + Depero
I can't begin to know how to write alt text for this. Virtual Club, Strobes, Heavy bass, Flow-y dance style, deer wrapped in ephemeral cloth and glowing full body tattoos dances around a metal chain.
Hey, I’m SoftlySteph - Virtual Reality Dancer, Visualist, and Monstergirl. VRChat has been my home for over four years now, during which i’ve had the privilege of painting it with my expression through dance. This year you could find me chasing pockets of consensual intimacy dancing at too many clubs to name, you maybe also caught me gogo dancing at Sanctum I also do live visual work -- creating and wrangling chaotic systems of video feedback with my body, but my greatest accomplishment this year was the product of all my passion: “The frictions of a modulated soul”, a 45 minute performance in collaboration with SNR labs for Raindance Immersive, winning best dance experience for the category’s inaugural year. I’m honored to be nominated for the VR community Art of Dance award, and hope you’ll take a moment to vote for me ^_^, I’ll keep pushing the medium as far as I can.