I love collabs, but it's exhausting asking others and being pushed out of my comfort zone to ask, while also never being asked.
No joke, it can deflate my energy for hours after asking someone and I can't socialize the rest of the day.
Makes you wonder if they really want to do things together.
GODS YES
I want to reach Zentreya levels of "You've been collabed", just, every week I play another multiplayer game with a group of folk, either new or old, and just have a big ol' laugh with 'em. I love multiplayer games, enjoying stuff with friends is the most fun I ever have.