Astrid Lundberg @oddpride.com 路 Dec 29 full respect to that second group's intentions but please do not accuse me of not caring about my appearance lmfao i put a lot of work into being this cute 鉁ㄢ湆馃徎
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It's so close to such a good compliment, too! "It's really cool how [generic you] can look so effortlessly cute." Because sure, anyone can be born looking good, that doesn't make a good compliment. But acknowledging voluntary choices and effort, that's where it's at.
I just saw a video of yours and was awestruck, but I鈥檓 non-binary and thus freed from the hell of thinking fashion isn鈥檛 a thing. your hair was k-pop perfect
The more you struggle to live, the less you live. Give up the notion that you must be sure of what you are doing. Instead, surrender to what is real within you, for that alone is sure....you are above everything distressing.Spinoza
The more clearly you understand yourself and your emotions, the more you become a lover of what is.
I once told someone "nice shirt; I wear one just like it when I don't want to care how I look." It wasn't taken as a compliment, strangely.