stef rose

@stefinitely.cool

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she/her | loves 90s alternative, black hair dye, tattoos, & live music, | wife of @matty.wtf | bi 🩷💜💙| hates raw tomatoes, patriarchy, and fascism | keeper of a tuxie cat, chickens, & Aussies | raising teenagers | Fuck ICE | stefinitely.cool

Stef rests between weightlifting sets in a dimly lit basement, looking directly at the camera with a focused, slightly serious expression. She wears purple-framed glasses, a burgundy sleeveless workout top, and a smartwatch, with one arm resting across the other. Black tattoos on the visible arm include a goth-style pinup girl, a cat sitting on a crescent moon surrounded by stars, and several small stars near the shoulder. Behind them is a black-and-white mural of skeletons surrounded by plants, creating a moody, gothic backdrop.
A black tri-color Australian Shepherd sleeps with her head resting on a gray comforter draped across a person’s legs. Her eyes are closed, and her black, tan, and white markings stand out against the bedding. Another Australian Shepherd is curled up out of focus near the top of the bed, making for a quiet, cozy moment shared by two resting dogs.
Selfie taken in a car. I’m wearing pale purple sunglasses, a black T-shirt, and a small pendant necklace. My hair is newly cut into a shorter layered bob, black with vivid blue pieces showing through the sides. Sunlight is hitting one side of the photo, and the car interior is softly blurred in the background
The Social Distortion album – Born to Kill hangs on a wall on a white “NOW PLAYING” shelf. The cover features a roaring leopard in bold black, orange, yellow, and hot pink artwork, with small string lights glowing around it.
Home gym corner with a loaded barbell on a rack and a large black and white poster of two skeletons embracing among flowers hanging on a painted cinder block wall. A small basement window lets in natural light above the poster.
Mirror selfie of a woman with short blue-black hair and glasses, wearing a black Pride graphic tee, black pleated mini skirt, fishnet tights, and black high-top sneakers with metal eyelets. She has visible tattoos on her arm and is posing with one hand on her hip.”
Selfie of Stef. She has short black wavy hair with blue ends, purple cat-eye glasses, a small hoop nose ring, a silver chain necklace, a black top, and a gray plaid flannel. She’s standing in front of a brick wall.
Album cover for Pete Yorn “musicforthemorningafter”
Charlie, a tuxedo cat, is curled up asleep on a black-and-white patterned blanket. Sunlight is shining across her back, making her fur look glossy.
Moxie asleep on my lap
Close-up selfie of a woman sitting in the front seat of a car, looking directly at the camera. She has short black hair with blue highlights, wears purple cat-eye glasses, and a small nose ring. She’s wearing a black sweater with gray stars and a star-shaped pendant necklace at her collarbone. The car interior and a parking lot with trees and buildings are visible in the background.
Black and white tuxedo cat curled up and sleeping on the arm of a beige couch, with one front paw stretched out over the edge.
A tricolor Australian Shepherd named Cody sits upright like a person on a dark leather couch, back supported by the cushions, front paws bent at the wrists and held loosely in front of his chest. He looks up with soft, expressive eyes, his white facial stripe and fluffy brown, black, and white fur clearly visible, giving him a relaxed, almost human-like pose.
Two young musicians performing with guitars and microphones inside a cozy record café, with string lights, posters, and a front window behind them.
Outdoor patio at a Nepalese restaurant with colorful prayer flags strung overhead, red planters, and metal tables on a sunlit brick terrace, with trees and mountains in the background.
A smiling couple seated outdoors at a wedding ceremony. The man has purple hair and a salt-and-pepper beard, wearing a black suit and tie. The woman has black hair with blue highlights, wears purple-framed glasses and a black leather jacket, and looks at the camera with a soft smile. Other guests in formal attire sit behind them, with a stone building and wooden details in the background.
Mirror selfie in a public restroom. A woman with short black hair (with blue highlights) and glasses is wearing a black sleeveless dress with a subtle dragon pattern. The dress is fitted and paired with a wide black belt featuring double buckles and metal ring details. She has visible arm tattoos and is holding her phone to take the photo. Neutral-toned walls, a sink, and a mirror frame the background.
A black and white tuxedo cat lying on a bed with a bold black-and-white patterned comforter. She faces slightly toward the camera with a calm, relaxed expression.
Close-up selfie of a woman in a car with a nose ring. She is wearing purple cat-eye glasses and a black leather jacket. Her dark hair is pulled back, revealing many ear piercings, and she is looking off to the side with a calm, focused expression.
Purple leopard-print T.U.K. sneakers with black laces, black trim, and a low-top silhouette, shown side-by-side on a wooden table.
Two vinyl records displayed side by side on a black-and-white blanket covered couch with black pillows behind them. On the left is Dan Fogelberg’s The Innocent Age, an off-white cover with a small image of a doll in a dress in front of a headstone. On the right is Soundgarden’s Superunknown, featuring a dark, surreal image with a glowing red-orange face and eclipse-like circle.
Close-up indoor selfie of a person with a short bob haircut. The hair is black with vivid blue sections visible along the sides and underneath. They are wearing purple-framed glasses, a nose ring, a black knit skeleton sweater, and a long necklace. The background is softly blurred, showing a mirror and warm-toned room decor. The lighting is soft and natural, highlighting the blue tones in the hair.
Mirror selfie of a woman with black, shoulder-length hair styled with subtle waves and hints of purple. She is wearing purple cat-eye glasses, a black graphic T-shirt featuring a skeleton, and a fitted black midi skirt with ruching and a thigh-high slit. She has visible tattoos on both arms and is wearing mismatched Converse-style sneakers in gray and purple. She stands in a bedroom with hardwood floors, a wooden dresser behind her, and soft natural light coming from the side.
Close-up of a black, tan, and white Australian Shepherd sleeping on a bed, its head resting on a stack of folded clothes. The dog wears a pink collar, and its eyes are half closed in a relaxed expression. Soft gray bedding fills the foreground, with a cozy bedroom and open doorway blurred in the background.
Close-up selfie taken inside a car on a gray day. I’m wearing purple cat-eye glasses, red lipstick, a black-and-gray plaid flannel jacket over a dark graphic tee, and dangling gold chain earrings. I have a nose ring. The car interior and a rainy road are visible in the background
Close-up selfie of a woman sitting in the driver’s seat of a car, wearing reflective lavender sunglasses, a small nose ring, and multiple earrings. Her black shoulder-length hair has subtle purple tones at the ends. She’s wearing a textured purple sweater (noticeably not black) with bold red lipstick and sunlight casting soft shadows across her face.
Screen showing that my phone is connected for phone and audio
Two people pose closely for a sunny outdoor selfie in front of a silver Airstream trailer and leafy greenery. The person on the left has chin-length black hair with purple highlights, glasses, rainbow heart earrings, a nose ring, and visible arm tattoos, wearing a black sleeveless shirt with colorful social justice text. The person on the right has teal-tinted hair, a beard, and a black hoodie over a shirt with bold white anti-racist lettering. Both are smiling gently at the camera.
Close-up selfie of a woman sitting in a car with shoulder-length black hair featuring faded purple highlights. She wears burgundy glasses, red lipstick, and a black-and-white skeleton patterned cardigan over a black graphic T-shirt. The purple tones in her hair are visible along the lower layers, showing a soft, partially faded color in transition.
A wall-mounted display of vinyl records arranged on two narrow wooden shelves against a light-colored wall. The top shelf holds five records, including The Cure – Acoustic Hits, Harvey Danger – King James Version, an original issue of U2’s The Joshua Tree, and a Talking Heads Speaking in Tongues picture disc in a translucent amber-tinted sleeve. The bottom shelf holds four records: Talking Heads More Songs About Buildings and Food, an original issue of Depeche Mode – 101, The Police – Zenyatta Mondatta, and Smashing Pumpkins – Live at the Cabaret Metro Chicago 1993. All records are front-facing and evenly spaced as decorative wall art.
Interior of a car viewed from the front seats. A crystal charm and a rectangular tag reading “Stef & Matty – The Lovecats – Live From the Back Yard - Backstage Pass” hang from the rearview mirror. On the dashboard sits a small purple rubber duck with red accents. The windshield shows a blurred suburban street with bare trees and storefronts on a cloudy day.
Two yellow-and-black student driver car magnets on a white surface. One reads “STUDENT DRIVER – Apologies in Advance.” The other reads “STUDENT DRIVER – Trying Not to Crash.”
A cozy, dimly lit corner with a record player on a black stand, its clear dust cover closed and blue light glowing. Vinyl records are stored below. To the left, a Police album leans against the stand, and in front of it two small skeleton figures sit side by side. Above, a wooden shelf holds album art and photos, adding to the moody, curated music-lover vibe.
Selfie of a couple at RIot Fest with a crowd behind them. The person in front smiles at the camera, with light-colored hair and a short beard, while the person behind them rests their chin on their shoulder. Overlaid text on the image reads, “Post a picture of you together and see what sound it gives you.” The song playing is “fuck MAGA” by Lacey Ann Johnson.
A brown and white dog with amber eyes rests his chin on the arm of a dark leather chair, gazing out at the tv at night. Warm indoor light highlights his face, and a small table with an aloe plant sits nearby.
Close-up of a car dashboard showing the speedometer and temperature gauge. The fuel range display reads 120 miles, the outside temperature shows 1°F, the engine temperature needle is near the cold (C) mark, and a green headlight indicator light is illuminated.
A vintage stereo cabinet in a living room decorated with stacked books, candles, crystals, and a softly glowing Himalayan salt lamp. Three Lladró porcelain dinosaur figurines are arranged playfully in the center, wrapped with warm white fairy lights. A framed photo, dried flowers, and small personal objects add a cozy, curated feel.
A scanned photo from 1996 showing a teenage couple dressed for junior prom, standing together in a living room. The girl wears a sleeveless black dress with a corsage and curled shoulder-length hair. The boy wears a black tuxedo with a boutonniere and has his arm around her. Wooden furniture, a bookshelf, and framed wall decor are visible in the background.
A vinyl record of Violator by Depeche Mode displayed on a wall, featuring the black cover with a red rose graphic. Below it is a small white sign that reads “NOW PLAYING.” Framed artwork hangs nearby on a light-colored wall.
A black-and-white tuxedo cat curled tightly into a round ball on a black patterned quilt, eyes closed and sleeping near a softly lit window with blue curtains.
Black-and-white cat lying on a gray carpet, holding a small toy between its front paws while covering its face, with two colorful mouse toys nearby and a blanket draped over the edge of a couch above.
A tall white holiday gift bag sits on a wooden desk, decorated with a cartoon IV drip shaped like a candy cane and green drips down the side. The bag reads, “Be Naughty… Save Santa the Trip!” in red and green lettering. A matching gift tag hangs from red rope handles. Behind it are green houseplants and a framed photo.
Close-up selfie of a person sitting in a car, wearing dark-framed glasses, bright red lipstick, and a black leather jacket with gold buttons. They have short dark hair with subtle purple tones and are looking directly at the camera. The background shows the car interior and a bright window.
Illustrated horror movie cover for Pet Sematary (1989). A large, snarling blue-black cat with glowing yellow eyes dominates the center background. Surrounding it are six distressed, blood-streaked human faces showing fear or rage, including a child holding a scalpel on the upper right. The title “PET SEMATARY” appears across the middle, with “1989” to the right and “The Classic Movie Monsters Collection” below. Dark, eerie color palette with mist, bare trees, and grave imagery creating a sinister tone.
Close-up of a car’s dashboard display showing Apple CarPlay. The music player is visible with the song “Christmas (Baby Please C…)” by Joey Ramone playing, along with play and skip controls. At the top of the screen are navigation shortcuts labeled Home, Home, and Work. Through the windshield behind the screen, a softly blurred winter sunset and out-of-focus streetlights create a warm, bokeh background.
Three people seated closely together at a table inside a clear, dome-shaped outdoor dining igloo decorated with string lights and snowflake ornaments. In the foreground is a woman wearing black, with dark hair and glasses, looking calmly at the camera. Behind her stands her fifteen-year-old son wearing an orange hoodie, leaning forward slightly. To her right sits her eighteen-year-old daughter wearing a green hoodie, smiling broadly. A table with a white paper covering and a small backpack are visible in front of them, with a softly lit, wintry background outside the dome.
A concert film screen shows Robert Smith of The Cure performing on stage under deep blue lighting. He has distinctive teased gray hair, red lipstick, and wears dark clothing while holding a black electric guitar and smiling toward the audience. Other band members play guitar and keyboard nearby in a hazy, atmospheric stage setting.
A woman with shoulder-length black hair with purple streaks takes a close-up selfie indoors. She’s wearing dark-framed glasses, bright red lipstick, and a green hoodie that reads “McAllister’s Home Security,” a reference to the movie Home Alone. Vertical blinds and part of a window frame are visible in the background.
An 80s photo of a woman standing on a wooden deck with two children. Behind them is a large row of blooming pink bushes and bare tree branches overhead. The woman in the center is wearing a pink jacket, jeans, and white sneakers, with one arm around the child on her right. The child on the far right (the user as a kid) is wearing a blue jacket and yellow pants. The child on the left is wearing a blue jacket, dark jeans, and white shoes. The scene looks like early spring.
A smiling couple takes a selfie at what looks like a concert venue. They’re both wearing black leather jackets; she has dark hair, glasses, and a soft smile, and he has tousled hair with streaks of color and a big grin. People and venue signs blur in the background.
A brown-and-white dog with soft, fluffy fur sits indoors, looking directly at the camera with wide, alert eyes. Behind the dog is an open black metal crate with a folded gray blanket on top. A small table nearby holds a decorative clock, a plant, and a model airplane. The room is warmly lit, with carpeted flooring and a cozy, lived-in feel.
A close-up of a wooden desk with two objects displayed side by side. On the left is a framed photo of a man and woman at a concert, lit by purple and blue stage lights; they’re smiling at each other while holding drinks. On the right is a decorative glass cloche containing a stacked trio of silver skulls on a bed of green moss, topped with a small black bat figurine. Part of a computer monitor is visible on the right edge, with a blurred office space in the background.
Screenshot of a Threads inbox showing an unsolicited DM from a man. His first message says “Hello Stephanie :)” followed by a second message the next morning that says “How’s your day going?” A small note at the bottom reads “You’re following each other.”
A close-up selfie of a woman in a garage with snow packed into her hair, glasses, and plaid winter flannel. Her glasses are frosted with snowflakes and her expression is tired but wry, as she’s just come in from clearing a snowy driveway. The background is softly blurred.
A woman with black shoulder-length hair that has purple highlights, which appear slightly reddish in the lighting, reclines on a couch while looking at a phone in her hand. She wears glasses and a black top that has slipped open enough to reveal part of a lace bra. Leaning against her side is a black-and-white dog, relaxed with its mouth slightly open. The setting is a cozy living room with a calm, quiet atmosphere.
Vinyl record sleeve on a wall for the Alice’s Restaurant original motion picture score. The cover is black with large pink title text at the top reading “Alice’s Restaurant” and orange text below stating “Starring Arlo Guthrie.” A portrait of Arlo Guthrie appears in the center, showing him with curly hair, a neutral expression, and a wide-brimmed hat. The bottom credits Garry Sherman for music supervision and includes the United Artists logo. Beneath the sleeve, a white block letter shelf spells out “NOW PLAYING.”
Christmas tree with sparkly black ribbon
Screenshot of an early conversation between Stephanie (in purple text bubbles) and Matty (in gray text bubbles) on a dating app. Matty says, “Hah I didn’t even blink at it.” Stephanie replies, “Cool. And you haven’t said anything about any body parts or things to do with them already, so you’re pretty much knocking it out of the park. Although now I did, lol,” followed by a laughing-face emoji. Matty responds, “The bar is so low,” with a laughing emoji, then adds, “I save my creepiness for the second date.” Stephanie replies, “Knew it was in there somewhere,” with a laughing emoji.
Winona Fighter vinyl playing
A woman sits in a car and looks directly at the camera with a slightly tired, end-of-week expression. She has shoulder-length black hair with purple streaks, wears dark-framed glasses, a nose ring, bold red lipstick, and a black-and-gray flannel shirt. The background is softly blurred.